Parenting issues and advice for those initial days with baby

The first few days home from the hospital are just as important to you as they are to your baby. As new parents you will have gone through an exciting birth that will have left you breathless and exhilarated.

Other than your immediate family and good friends you might want to ask other friends to wait a week or two before they descend on you with gifts and wanting to hold the new baby. You need time to recuperate and settle into the routine that a sleeping, feeding, and often crying baby brings into your life.

As a new mother you will need to pay particular attention to the way that you are feeling so that those “baby blues” don’t creep up and surprise you unexpectedly. Your body is going through some major physical changes after the birth of your baby. All of this can affect the way that you feel.

You should be patient with yourself, understand that all these feelings are normal, and that in a couple of weeks things will feel better for you.

If you find that you are feeling more and more depressed, and find it difficult to care for yourself and your family, you should consult your doctor. He can determine if you are suffering from a condition called postpartum depression.

Symptoms of postpartum depression include:

* Overwhelming feelings of sadness and depression accompanied by crying.
* Having no interest in your baby or being overly concerned and worried about your baby.
* Weight loss accompanied by not eating.
* Feeling afraid of hurting yourself or your baby.
* Oversleeping.

During the first few days at home your family will be adjusting to the additional member of your family. If you have other children at home you may be dealing with feelings of jealousy as the new baby takes center stage.

Make sure that you include your other children in the day-to-day activities that are part of the new baby’s routine. Let older children help with diaper changing, feeding, and just sitting and holding the new baby if they are old enough to do so.

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